Sewwandhi, a 15-year-old girl from an impoverished family, grew up in a turbulent household. Her father’s addiction to drugs and alcohol created constant conflict at home. Her unemployed mother often left with Sewwandhi and her younger sister, seeking temporary shelter elsewhere. To support the family, the mother took on daily chores in neighbouring households.
Despite occasionally reconciling with her husband and returning home, she began an affair with one of his drug-addicted friends. This friend introduced her to a 25-year-old man, with whom Sewwandhi developed a close relationship. This new relationship led her to drop out of school, sparking frequent arguments at home. Following a violent dispute, a concerned neighbour called the police. As a result, Sewwandhi, her mother and her younger sister were taken into custody by the Women and Children’s Unit.
Under court order, the children were placed in the care of LEADS at the Kedella counselling centre. Upon her arrival at Kedella, Sewwandhi was severely depressed. Having been separated from her parents for the first time, she struggled with feelings of abandonment and confusion. LEADS assigned her a female counsellor, providing her with the care and emotional support she needed. Additionally, Sewwandhi was taken to the psychiatric unit of the Ragama Hospital every month for treatment.
Counselling sessions were arranged for her parents to mend their strained relationship. These monthly sessions led by LEADS’ professionals offered a glimmer of hope as they slowly worked through their issues. In addition to emotional support, LEADS assisted Sewwandhi in obtaining her National Identity Card and resuming her studies. She was provided with a safe environment to connect with her family, particularly her younger sister, who was living in a Child Development Centre.
After spending three months at Kedella, Sewwandhi showed interest in vocational training in sewing. LEADS assisted her by enrolling her in a year-long course at the Balapitiya Mosvold Vocational Training Educational Institute, covering her course fees and providing the necessary supplies. Regular follow-ups were conducted to ensure her emotional well-being and her psychiatric treatment at Karapitiya hospital continued as well.
Throughout her journey, LEADS consistently supported Sewwandhi, visiting her twice a month, offering counselling and arranging for her to stay at a safe boarding house during holidays. After completing her vocational course, Sewwandhi began a six-month job training and excelled in her final vocational exam.
Her journey didn’t stop there. Sewwandhi also enrolled in a computer course as part of her curriculum. She utilised these new skills to secure a position as a Cashier at Arpico, earning a well-deserved salary that brought her great satisfaction.
Sewwandhi’s resilience is truly inspiring. Her determination to provide her younger sister with the education she missed and to build a stable home for her family showcases her unwavering spirit. Today, she stands as a strength for younger girls facing similar challenges, demonstrating that hope can shine even in the darkest of times.
*The name of the child has been changed to protect her identity.
